My husband and I have been married for a year and a half, and he usually treats me well, but when we have intercourse, he falls asleep at the end of each session, and sometimes I can't even talk to him, why is that?
I feel he is a bit selfish, is he not in love with me, or am I too sensitive?
Why do some men fall asleep after "doing something"?
I believe many women have the same trouble: passionate when the man said all the sweet words, after the passion fell back to sleep, tired as if just to save the planet.
The behavior of the other half to fall asleep will make delicate and sensitive women think too much, thinking "he does not love me," "may be tired of it," "not interested in me. However, men "can not say". Sometimes, fall back to sleep is also a necessity.
The first is because the physical exertion is too much, the room is comparable to doing heavy work. Especially in the room, men are more active, belong to the "force" of the party, so the body of liver glycogen will be a lot of consumption, plus the male muscle density is higher than that of women, so after some lingering, the body's fatigue will multiply, it is not surprising to fall asleep.
The second is because the physiological structure of men and women are different, men in the orgasm, because the sexual needs are met, will release a large amount of prolactin, prolactin and sleep are closely linked, can quickly promote sleep, let people drowsy.
In addition, the release of prolactin and pressor hormone in men during orgasm is usually accompanied by the secretion of melatonin, which reduces stress levels and makes people relaxed and sleepy.
Thirdly, because of brain activity, French neurologists have pointed out that after male intercourse, the brain quickly shuts down all instructions regarding desire and stops turning the attention, awareness and perceptual sensitivity of the cerebral cortex.
In addition to the secretion of various chemicals that promote the sleep state, men will not be able to control into the sleep state.
So, sometimes, men fall asleep after passion, not enough love, but the physiological reaction to make, women do not have to think too much, so as not to affect the feelings of both sides. However, sleep immediately after sex, is really good?
Sexologists said that in the process of sex, men due to the exhaustion of a lot of physical strength, the heart rate will accelerate, the blood also rose, if you fall asleep, may be fatigue-related transmitter function will not be able to receive the fatigue signal from the brain, wake up more fatigue, resulting in a slower recovery of physical strength.
In addition, it will also make the other half of the huge psychological gap, triggering cold war, quarrels, affecting the relationship.
The man who fell asleep after passion, you may have missed doing 4 things
The room is also a delicate, not simply the process of venting desire, but a beautiful enjoyment. If you do not pay attention to the taboos of the room, it is likely to affect the health, and even reduce libido. Therefore, to enjoy the "sex" life, after the passion, men and women these should do and should not do things must know.
1, men should not urinate immediately after intercourse, women should urinate immediately
The difference is that the urethral structure of women is different from that of men, and you should urinate immediately after intercourse to help remove urethral bacteria or toxins.
2, it is not advisable to take a shower immediately after the intercourse
Some people are used to showering after intercourse and rinsing their genital organs to avoid inflammation of the reproductive tract. It should be noted that it is not advisable to take a bath immediately after intercourse, otherwise it is likely to cause a lack of blood supply to the heart and brain, fainting and leading to accidents.
3, should not drink ice water immediately after intercourse
After the intercourse due to the consumption of a lot of physical strength, will certainly be dry mouth, this time if a glass of ice water, must be sound and drenched. If you think so, it's wrong!
After intercourse, the blood flow in the gastrointestinal tract will be reduced, drinking cold drinks or eating cold food will stimulate the gastrointestinal tract and cause gastrointestinal discomfort. The correct approach should be to drink a glass of warm water after 10 minutes of intercourse, to help the urinary tract to expel bacteria and replenish physical energy.
4、Hug and chat with your partner after intercourse
After the intercourse do not immediately do their own thing, do not pay attention to each other, but should embrace each other, close the distance between the two sides, increasing the intimacy and happiness between partners. In addition, you can also just review the "performance" of both sides, to enhance communication and exchange can help improve the quality of the next sex.
Men are lower body animals? Men and women are prone to make the 3 big sex mistakes
Some people say that men are lower body animals, sexual desire a head on the loss of reason. In fact, regardless of men and women, in the stimulation of sex hormones, it is easy to make sexual mistakes. For example.
1. not wearing a condom?
Some people feel better without a condom, more exciting. However, condoms are not only effective contraception, but also prevent the spread of STDs. Therefore, do not underestimate the condom, if there is no plan to get pregnant, every sex should wear condoms correctly, to ensure the "sex" safety.
2. the bigger the key part of the man can meet women?
In fact, women's satisfaction with sex does not depend on the size of the male sex organ, as long as the male sex organ on the female vagina 1/3 of the stimulation, orgasm will be produced. Therefore, to have a high quality sex life, men should pay more attention to foreplay and sexual positions.
3. The purpose of sex is to achieve orgasm?
This is not true, if you have sex with the purpose of reaching orgasm, the result will often be the opposite of what you want. The meaning of sexual life is to meet the sexual needs of both parties, to obtain a happy sexual experience. As long as in the sex life, both sides produced a sense of pleasure, then it is perfect.
Everyone has seven emotions and six desires, everyone has to meet their own physical needs, this is not wrong. Only, as mature adults, we enjoy the new life at the same time, but also pay attention to sexual health, sexual safety, in order to maximize the feeling of the beauty of sexual life.